No Foreplay Required - We know that every advice column has attempted to drill into men’s heads that the No. 1 thing women want in bed is foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. But AskMen is going to contradict those teachings. Believe it or not, there are occasions when a woman doesn’t need the big build-up and wants to get straight to the main event. These are the times when the requisite foreplay can be skipped because she’s ready to get down to business immediately.
No Foreplay Required
After a night out
The two of you have been out on the town together and had a great time. You enjoyed a few cocktails. You either joined her on the dance floor or, if you’re one of those non-dancing guys, you sat and watched her shake it with her girlfriends. The environment was giddy and sexy the way only a sweaty nightclub full of half-drunk people can be. On such a night, foreplay is not necessary. She’s probably been thinking about having sex with you all night. When you finally step in the door, she’ll be tearing your clothes off before you can make it to the bedroom.
Welcome home sex
Whether it’s a business trip, a family visit or a vacation that separates the two of you, when you are forced to spend time apart, the homecoming will be sweet. The time away from each other has made not only her heart grow fonder but her libido, as well. When you’re picking her up at the airport or vice versa, you can be pretty certain that the sex is going to be fast and furious when you get back home. She has missed you a lot, so she’s not going to stand on formality once you’re finally in the same room.
In public
Not everyone is into getting busy in public, but if your girl has an exhibitionist side or just gets off on the possibility of getting caught, this kind of sex doesn’t require foreplay. First of all, public sex will usually be rather quick to lessen the chances that someone will catch you. It also generally takes place in locations that aren’t foreplay-friendly -- a bathroom stall isn’t the place for romance. If she’s into having sex in the back of a movie theater or upstairs at a dinner party, there’s a good chance that the thought of it has already gotten her excited, so foreplay is not required.
After attending a wedding or bridal shower
Weddings and bridal showers do strange things to women. You may notice that when your girlfriend comes home from attending one of these events, she is more enthusiastic than usual in bed. This usually happens for one of two reasons: 1) The type of woman who has no plans to get married will want to have hot sex with you to celebrate the fact that she’s not saddled with a husband and kids; and 2) If your girlfriend is the marrying kind, she may want to get down to business to prove that unbridled passion will still be on the table once you commit to her. Either way, wedding bells can be a major aphrodisiac and will often make foreplay superfluous.
Short on time
Contrary to what you may think, being short on time is not a reason to not have sex. You may believe that women would prefer to avoid it altogether rather than do it without foreplay, but chances are, if she’s in the mood, she’ll be fine with squeezing it in before you go to work, during your lunch break or on other occasions when time is scarce. Quickies have their place in every sexual repertoire. Just be sure not to make a habit of it. ( askman.com )
No Foreplay Required
After a night out
The two of you have been out on the town together and had a great time. You enjoyed a few cocktails. You either joined her on the dance floor or, if you’re one of those non-dancing guys, you sat and watched her shake it with her girlfriends. The environment was giddy and sexy the way only a sweaty nightclub full of half-drunk people can be. On such a night, foreplay is not necessary. She’s probably been thinking about having sex with you all night. When you finally step in the door, she’ll be tearing your clothes off before you can make it to the bedroom.
Welcome home sex
Whether it’s a business trip, a family visit or a vacation that separates the two of you, when you are forced to spend time apart, the homecoming will be sweet. The time away from each other has made not only her heart grow fonder but her libido, as well. When you’re picking her up at the airport or vice versa, you can be pretty certain that the sex is going to be fast and furious when you get back home. She has missed you a lot, so she’s not going to stand on formality once you’re finally in the same room.
In public
Not everyone is into getting busy in public, but if your girl has an exhibitionist side or just gets off on the possibility of getting caught, this kind of sex doesn’t require foreplay. First of all, public sex will usually be rather quick to lessen the chances that someone will catch you. It also generally takes place in locations that aren’t foreplay-friendly -- a bathroom stall isn’t the place for romance. If she’s into having sex in the back of a movie theater or upstairs at a dinner party, there’s a good chance that the thought of it has already gotten her excited, so foreplay is not required.
After attending a wedding or bridal shower
Weddings and bridal showers do strange things to women. You may notice that when your girlfriend comes home from attending one of these events, she is more enthusiastic than usual in bed. This usually happens for one of two reasons: 1) The type of woman who has no plans to get married will want to have hot sex with you to celebrate the fact that she’s not saddled with a husband and kids; and 2) If your girlfriend is the marrying kind, she may want to get down to business to prove that unbridled passion will still be on the table once you commit to her. Either way, wedding bells can be a major aphrodisiac and will often make foreplay superfluous.
Short on time
Contrary to what you may think, being short on time is not a reason to not have sex. You may believe that women would prefer to avoid it altogether rather than do it without foreplay, but chances are, if she’s in the mood, she’ll be fine with squeezing it in before you go to work, during your lunch break or on other occasions when time is scarce. Quickies have their place in every sexual repertoire. Just be sure not to make a habit of it. ( askman.com )
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